Toileting issues and lazy schools

Im really pissed off right now....had a phone call from the assistant principal or was it the acting principal about Stef's toileting issues....demanding a meeting at their convenience...ha, not available. What I am really pissed about is that they want to put Stef in a nappy (after 6years without one) and want to put her in a one piece suit so that she cant put her hands in her pants when she is soiled. What I am angry about is at home she is essentially pretty clean..which means they are being lazy about her toileting..not leaving her on the toilet long enough, and certainly not wiping her properly. Basically they are wanting her to regress to make it easier for themselves.....well sorry, but its against human rights to put her in a one piece suit guys, and it happens over my dead body. Nor am I going to put her in nappies because you are understaffed and too lazy...f%$&^ You! This morning I have skipped gym so I can get stef bathed and breakfasted an hour early in the hope that I can time it so she will go before she leaves home. You see the whole problem is that stef goes about 1-1 1/2 hours after breakfast.....now that puts it normally at 9am when she gets to school..if they took the time to let her go properly then and wiped her properly their whole issue would go away....but no.....they complain instead about continuous soiling (wouldnt happen if they let her go) and touching ...derr, poo on the vag is irritating ...honestly...if they just did the job properly. If they dont have enough staff (two for 10 kids, 1 who is allowed to toilet then they shouldnt be downgrading the kids disabilities when they are applying for funding. Stef was funded at level 2 (brent was funded at level 3) ...way too low for what she is not capable of doing and so the school misses out on staff. She is now at level 4 because I fought it and got it reassessed...the extra funding has not gone into extra staff or help for stef, but straight into the school coffers... Ah the battles that we face all the time are ridiculous! The system is all about them.....not the kids or their education...